Sometimes we hide the truths, because we think that the reality of that truth is as appalling as the darkness of the night.

And we remain silent because we wait for the morning after that night. but the time we spend in that night with fearfulness would the most hardest time ever.

But we forget that the truth always has a way of coming out. and the consequences after revelation of truth might more appalling than that dark night. So it's better to face a dark horrible night than getting horrible consequences in your whole life.

And the most worst thing that happens to us in that situation is we lose the trust. and once trust is broken then nothing can heal that trust.

Yes it's always hard to reveal the truth but always remember telling truth will never put you in permanent problem rather you feel comfortable after telling the truth.

I like to give hopes to people, because we people are tired to fighting from hardships and sorrows. and I know these hopes gives the little sparks of happiness on the faces of  people. 

So why not we all spread the little sparks of happiness in each other's life by giving hopes. 

Yeah it would definitely be a good step to spread happiness and positivity among the people around us.

 

Give hope, See sparks of happiness on someone's face and take comfort for your soul. 

Once upon a time I didn't have anything to lose. I consider myself as a loser in every aspects of life. I used to cry in nights, and whenever I saw my reflection in the mirror all I noticed, was hopelessness and disappointments. I got exhausted with the taunts of all close ones of my life. 

And then a time came, when every taunt, hopelessness, and disappointments didn't matter for me, I started focusing on my future only, I started working extremely hard without caring anybody and even without caring my own needs and wants.  

And now I have everything and I am living my life comfortably.

But you know what was the main reason of my failure, it was negative thinking,  all the negative thoughts that I used to think about myself, all the negative thoughts and taunts people used to say about me. and 

my way of success started when I realized that I have nothing to do with others life and others thinking then I started thinking positively and working hard for myself and achieved what ever I have desired.

So moral of the story is no matter what is happening in your life that is bad or worse all you have to do is keep thinking positive and move forward because remember " this time shall pass ".

In this merciless life, the most difficult task is to wait for someone, despite knowing that he will never be back. But just because of our feelings or emotions we wait, and in the wake of our waiting we tear ourselves into little pieces, and waste our time on waiting. 

It doesn't matter how older we are or how mature we are, we stumble by our feelings, by believing, and by our most beloved relationships. 

But in life a time comes when we realize that we should move on, we shouldn't waste our time to wait for someone. 

So if you have been waiting for someone then it's a suggestion not to wait for someone, and utilize your time by loving and caring those who are with you. 

 

If you have been waiting for someone for years, then I suggest you stop waiting and move on because time does not stop for you and if you allow it to pass then it's only you who to blame.

Sometimes we want to cry just because we feel empty form inside, like we feel deficiency of something that we don't know. At this situation my advise is for you that let your eyes shed the tears, because after that your will get a comfortable relief and that relief will make you fresh and motivates you to start pleasing your life again. 

We talk good, we write good, 

We talk about love, we write about love,

We give advise, We write advise,

We give lectures and we write lectures, 

These expressions we use daily, but we don't apply these to ourselves, we just mean to give advice and showing ourselves superior, but do you know why we do this, because some of us feel inferior by looking other's lives and some of us are conceited because of the upper class life they have. actually we don't even know the exact moral meaning of these expressions. we all are just fond of showing off.

So isn't not good? Before we talk good and write good, we should make ourselves good

Before we talk about love and write about love, we should learn that how to love,

Before we give advise and lectures we should apply these advises and lectures to ourselves first.

Yes it will be surly good, it will make positive change in to our society. but the thing is if we do.

 

Relationship is like a tree in our lives, without it our life is shadeless, keeping relationship is the hardest thing to do. It needs sincerity, care, and love just like a tree. soft tone, positive thinking, and care makes relationship strong, but sincerity less and careless relation is never last long. so keep this tree watering with positive thinking so that you can get a comfort full shadow.

Patience does not say that don't cry, Patience does not say that stay strong all the time. we are common human beings, we cannot do patience for so long. Rather, at some point of the life, crying is better option than patience.

Do patience in the hardest situations of your life but don't make yourself too tough like a stone that in the wake of much patience, you lose the ability of feeling.

If I eat ice-cream at midnight, my mama gets angry 

If I come home late, my baba gets angry 

If I use cell phone too much, my mama gets angry 

If I oversleep, my baba gets angry

If I eat fast food on daily, my mama gets angry

If I want to buy motorbike, my baba don't allow me

If I want to stay with my friends for some days, my mom don't allow me

Why they don't allow me to live my life with the way I want, Why they always do nagging.

If you also think like that then your thinking is wrong. Sometimes parents become overprotective but it's not nagging, it's caring, because they care for you, for your health, and for your future, just because you are their blood.

And if you have parents like them, then trust me you are the most luckiest person in the world.

Be grateful to Almighty for these beautiful and caring lives, and also be grateful to your parents.

Love them, care for them, show your love to them. because some people crave for parents.

I don't know why we seek attention from others. Why we jealous from others. Although we all know that everyone gets what Almighty has written in their destinies.

But we always jealous, we always seek, even if we know other's reality.

And then sometimes, in the result of seekness and jealous we suffer from huge insult. as human nature we feel insult for sometime we regret. But Then again we seek and jealous.

This useless seekness and so cold jealousy is a big disease that has spread so much and it is still has been in spreading process.

Seekness and jealousy is a poison for good society, just do little try to make your society poison free by removing this poison from yourself first.

Learn to have patience, because Allah Almighty knows everything, He knows that how you are doing and what are you going through. just have patience and keep trust on Allah Almighty, He changes the time. and remember this the change is the nature of time.

People told me time changes,

Time told me people change,

It is not always happens that the person who is with you today, will always be with you. So it is better to learn to to walk alone in the journey of life.

Remember this, when time favors you everyone loves you. and when time disfavors you, everyone ignores you.

Live as though there are no eyes looking at you, because it is these eyes that effects your mind, heart, and thinking on the perspective of living, so why cannot we just ignore all the eyes and see the world and live through our own eyes, believe me just give this a one try you will feel like a joyous bird that flies and sings a beautiful song while roaming around the world.

She is at the stage of her endurance that she cannot bear anyone's anger, If someone wants to leave her,  she even doesn't stop him, she doesn't endure anyone's tantrum. she feel boredom even from her self.

It is true, that everyone experience in their life such terrible relation with someone and as a result they become mentally sick and this sickness grows with age and ends with the breath.

But there are also ways to overcome these type of experiences. the main requirement is forget such people, and such relations that gives mental depression. 

Just think why we destroy our own and only life for someone else. all you have to do is to make yourself your first priority. and if you apply this thinking, trust me, no one and no any relation can destroy you. 

I have learnt through my life that human heart should be feeling less, because a human with feeling full heart always gets in trouble, even for  minor things it thinks a lot, gets huge amount of depression and makes epic dramas like love and hate.

So isn't good to have a heart with no feelings means no over thinking no depression and no other epic dramas. 

Sitting alone and writing is my most favorite hobby, I love to write, writing about anything makes my mind depression free, actually now I am addicted to writing. I know that I don't write as good as good writers. but I also know that one day I will be good at writing.

I always polish my these Three skills so that I can become a good writer

Listening gives ocean of knowledge,

Writing makes you depression free,

Reading gets you in the different world of adventures.

Blame that girl, why she went out 

Blame that girl, why she did not cover herself

Blame that girl, why she did not run

Blame that girl, Why she did not scream 

Yes just blame to that girl not to that rapist..... no matter a rape victim is a 2 years old baby girl or 85 year old lady. because in our society the necessity of honor is only for female not for male. 

Just keep blaming to girls because you won't do anything to get rid of this problem because you are man too.

Listen girls, Keep this in your mind no one will going to help you when you are in trouble, When ever you go out make sure you keep a weapon with you for your safety, because you are the only who can protect yourself.

 

We always complain for hurts, for troubles, for problems, for pains even for a minor thing. We cry in nights, We go through from long term depression, we make tired our minds by overthinking. Because we forget all the blessings that we have, the blessings that Almighty has given us. 

But have we ever thought what would our life be like without difficulties? No, we never thought. 

For a moment just imagine a life without pains, troubles and difficulties, would there be any humor in a such life? How long would we see and endure happiness without sorrow? If life would be like this, then man would be tired and boredom for being happy for so long.

There is always a reason behind any situation and any circumstance. and Indeed, only Almighty knows the reason behind any situation and circumstance and everything Almighty does is good for us.

So never become a ungrateful in any situation and circumstance of your life.

Living together for three months without getting into a fight does not mean that it is because of love, maybe its because you respect each other. Talking each other all day doesn't mean it is love. maybe you talk each other to get rid of boredom.

Love is the world's most valuable thing. But nowadays love has become a game of lust which ends in a few days or months.

Love does not need any time duration, love does not demand to talk all day and Love does not demand to live together.

Actually love is the way of living life and in love it does not matter whether your partner stays with you or not. Love is the name of the beautiful feelings that comes from the deepest core of your heart, the feelings that ends with the last breath of your body, because love has not any kind of expiry date.

Some people come into your life, they stay for some time, they hurt you and then they leave you. 

In the wake of this you cry in the nights, you start hating themselves and because of that you suffer from sever depression and that depression makes you a negative person. you think that they broke you....

REALLY???

No, people like these cannot break you, in fact no one can break you. There is only one person in the world who can break you and that person is YOU. When you give up, means you broke yourself.

Remember life never ends just because of someone who left you, make your life easy, make your heart strong. make your heart as big as no one can  hurt you.

Just ignore these kind of people and forgive them because forgiving someone is the best way to healing yourself.